Sunday, June 14, 2009

Beat etiquette

Yes, even the lowest places in the gay sex life have an etiquette, which is not so different from the one for the rest of the 'scene'.

1. If I'm too hot for you, not even in your dreams: The attitude is not an accessory, it's part of the personality. You can be rejected just as easily as on gaydar or in a bar.

2. Free will: You can stand on the same spot at the urinal for hours waiting for your charming Dick, stalk other cruiser freely or ran away at any time.

3. Repeating does not mean commitment: Running into the same person more than once does not mean anything. Enjoy as long as it lasts and cherish the memory.

4. Condoms are not part of the etiquette, but part of any healthy sex life.

5. Beats usually are public areas; behave accordingly to keep the beat safe for other cruisers, e.g. do not stay for hours in there, keep your 'voice' low, respect straight ones.

Enjoy!


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